Monthly Archives: February 2026

The Interests of Others

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We’re Too Bratty & Hard To Please

Is it just me, or are Christians far too easily offended? It seems like there are an awful lot of really “thin-skinned” believers, and modern culture and technology provide them with an unprecedented number of places to vent their wrath. Social media, reality TV, the internet, and talk shows all offer platforms to puff up our feelings of self-importance and fuel our self-righteous attitudes. It seems incredibly reflective of our idolatrous society that even Christians have become bratty and hard to please. I’ve eaten out at a restaurant with a Christian friend who berates a waitress for bringing the wrong dish and then decides to write a scathing online review for everyone to read. Where are grace and mercy?

It’s Embarrassing

It’s really embarrassing when compared to the real persecution that believers face in other parts of the world. I mean, what else might be on that poor waitress’s mind? A severely ill spouse? Up all night with a baby? Why aren’t we asking—with genuine concern—if they’re okay? Why not offer to pray with her? This behavior is epidemic, and surveys are revealing that one of the main reasons the lost aren’t coming to church is because of the conduct of those who claim to be following Jesus. Instead of enhancing the gospel of Christ, as Jesus intends, we’re part of the problem.

We’re Too Easily Offended

Several years ago, one of my best friends in ministry was fighting a battle for his pastoral life because he “dared” to lovingly confront a mom and dad over their out-of-control toddler, who screams during the entire worship service, and they refuse to take him out. They were “offended” that he would ask them to remove the screaming child for the benefit of the rest of the faith community. I remember a Thursday morning men’s small group from a few years back, and one of our members mentioned that of all the people he’s known who have left the church over the last twenty-some years since his conversion, no more than three or four actually had biblical grounds for leaving. The rest left over purely selfish reasons. And one day they will stand before the One who was beaten, mocked, spit upon, and finally hung on a cross to die, and hear, “You left your church over that? Really? Go get a cross and deny yourself!” 

Loving Others

We need to beat the drum to love others. We need to preach that message better and more often, because most in the church today just don’t get it. We need to preach and teach the church how to love others selflessly and assume personal responsibility to deal with personal sin, resolve conflict, and restore wounded relationships. The Apostle Paul wrote to the church in Philippi: “Do nothing out of rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. Everyone should look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.” — Philippians 2:4  That last line is perhaps the most significant. If we’re going to be part of the solution, church, we have to “look also for the interests of others.” Don’t just focus on your own interests, Paul says. We need to be rescued from our idol of narcissism, church.
 

Freedom From Cannibalism

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Biting One Another

In the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Church of Galatia, he wrote: “But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another” (Gal. 5:15). In the context of this letter, Paul’s main theme is “freedom.” The genuine follower of Jesus Christ is set free from their previous bondage to the flesh! We are free from the slavery of capitulating to the demands of our broken and depraved natures. No longer does sin have power over us! Jesus, upon His ascension to the Father, sent the Holy Spirit to indwell us and empower us with the ability to say “no” to sin’s demands!

Called To Be Free

So Paul the Apostle tells this church: “Christ has liberated us to be free. Stand firm, then, and don’t submit again to a yoke of slavery… For you were called to be free, brothers; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. For the entire law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself” (Gal. 5:1, 13–14). The essence of Paul’s words is this—the Gospel of Jesus Christ sets us free from Christian cannibalism! It is only Jesus’ Gospel that empowers us to love others like this! When our love for others grows in this way, it’s a powerful endorsement of the validity of our words when we share our faith. Conversely, it is a blatant and ugly contradiction of Jesus’ Gospel when we “…bite and devour one another…” (v. 15).

Preying Like Cannibals

When we prey on one another like cannibals, we sabotage the glory of Jesus’ cross! We cover up the beauty of Christ, who gave Himself up in payment for our self-centeredness! I saw the ugliness of Christian cannibalism played out as a Bible college student, when half the church I was attending walked out on the other half over the color choice of the ladies’ restroom during a building program. Their testimony in that rural community was ruined! I saw it happen! Oh, how we need the Spirit’s help to learn how to deal with conflict in a way that’s redemptive rather than destructive! A church that does not serve one another in love like Jesus will cannibalize itself! We can only love like Jesus if we’ve been set free by the power of His Gospel! God can and does deliver churches from Christian cannibalism!

Overcoming The Past

Only the Gospel of Christ can deliver our churches from such ungodly behavior! Some of you have experienced a church that devoured itself. You still struggle with the pain. It’s still raw. And you are broken at the thought that some unbelievers will never come to faith in Jesus Christ because of the relational damage they’ve seen inflicted on others by so-called Christians. And don’t forget to praise God if you’re part of a community of faith that truly loves, honors, and respects one another! That is truly a work of God! Be encouraged and pray regularly for continued peace and harmony in your church. Pray daily for spiritual renewal and revival. And remember that it’s the Gospel of Christ that frees us to be Jesus to everyone we meet!
 

Free To Serve Others

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A Dog Eat Dog World

In the world, it’s “dog-eat-dog.” If you want to climb up the corporate ladder, you have to be a relational piranha—taking advantage of the brokenness and inconsistencies of your co-workers to gain a personal advantage! That’s not Jesus’ way! He was known as the “friend of sinners.” He healed the wounded! He forgave even those who nailed Him to the cross! The Gospel frees us to serve—even those with whom we may be in competition for that promotion! And it’s all because we can trust a sovereign God’s plan!

Our Freedom And Our Calling

In the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Galatian church, he says that our call to freedom and our call to serve are synonymous! In other words, we actually lose our freedom when we fail to serve! We were saved from slavery to sin and self; so when we fail to serve—and even expect to be served—we fall back into the old slavery to the flesh! He says we, “…submit again to a yoke of slavery…” (Galatians 5:1). Don’t surrender the freedom you have in Christ—who satisfies your every need—for the fleshly desires of the world: to be served or to be promoted! When we serve others instead of using them, we testify to the world that Jesus truly is enough! He is all we need!

Jesus Served Us

We don’t need to fill any emptiness inside us with the need to be served! Jesus served us, and that’s enough! It’s the Gospel of Christ that frees us to love others…even strangers! More than service, the Gospel actually gives us a heart of love for those we serve—“For the entire law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself” (Galatians 5:14). Paul is quoting Jesus’ answer when He was asked, “What is the greatest commandment?” And Jesus said, “To love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your might! And the second is like it (or second only in importance!): Love your neighbor in the same way you love yourself” (Matthew 22:34–40). Then Jesus illustrated that with His parable about the Good Samaritan, who acted as a neighbor to someone he didn’t even know! That’s why a “neighbor” can actually be anyone we have the opportunity to serve—even someone who’s a stranger! “And love them,” He said, “in the same way that you love yourself.”

Gospel Freedom

Only the Gospel sets me free to want to feed someone who’s hungry just as much as I want to feed myself when I get hungry! Only the Gospel sets me free to want to help my neighbor find a job just as much as I want to find a job—or to want a raise or a promotion for my co-worker just as much as I want that raise or promotion for myself! And to care about what happens to that guy down the street—that you don’t even know—just as much as you care about what happens to you! That’s powerful! And only Jesus’ Gospel empowers us to love that way! And when we grow in our love for others like that, it’s an incredible endorsement of the validity of the words we share with others about our faith! It makes us real! Genuine!

Jesus In The Flesh

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Do We Look Like Him?

In a conversation one of our church family members had with someone who was struggling to understand and accept the Gospel, she said to them, “I just need to see Jesus in the flesh!” She meant by that that she needed to see what it looked like for someone claiming to be a follower of Jesus to actually live it. That’s a powerful statement! And the Gospel of Christ actually frees us to be “Jesus in the flesh” to everyone we encounter.

It’s A Radical Transformation

When we truly humble ourselves before God and submit to Him, Jesus moves into our lives—by the power of His Holy Spirit—and radically begins to transform us in every way, including our relationships. We can actually become Jesus to everyone we meet. Let me explain. When humanity, in Adam, sinned, it was a complete breakdown of our ability to image God. We were broken! Because of our fallen nature, we are born into this world with an inability to love like God loves. So we hate others. We lash out. We become self-absorbed. We use people for what they can do for us. That’s our default condition at birth.

Everything Changes In Jesus

But when the Gospel of Christ is introduced to us and accepted, everything changes. Just read Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John’s accounts of Jesus’ life and marvel at the way He loves—even His enemies! And we are transformed into His image as we dwell in His presence through the written Word. The Apostle Paul described it like this when he wrote to the church of Corinth: “We all, with unveiled faces, are looking as in a mirror at the glory of the Lord and are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory; this is from the Lord who is the Spirit” (2 Cor. 3:18). By the power of the Gospel, we see God’s glory—in Jesus—and we are transformed into that same image from one glory to another.

Re-Imaged Into Jesus

We are being “re-imaged” into Jesus! We need to hear this. Far too often, the interpersonal relationships within the body look no different than the relationships among unbelievers. And I submit to you that this plays a huge part in the overall ineffectiveness of the Western church when it comes to making disciples and attracting people to the church. So how do we change this? How can this trend be reversed?

Jesus’ New Command

Jesus told His disciples, “I give you a new command: Love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34–35). As He transforms us to love others in the same way He loves us, the world will know we belong to Jesus! They’ll know we love Jesus because we love them! Here’s what I believe God wants us to do about this: He wants us to repent over our broken relationships. To repent literally means “to change your mind.” So God wants us to change our minds about our broken relationships. We used to think they were okay, but they’re not okay. We need Him to fix them so the world can see Jesus in us.